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Post by Jonus on Jun 6, 2006 23:08:57 GMT -5
Ok so I'm trying to decide how to ask my girlfriend to marry me. I have 3 possibilities.
The first is to pretend to be a patient in the hospital she works in, she's a nurse by the way, and then have her assigned to take care of me and when she comes in to take my vitals I uncover myself and open the box with the ring I haven't bought yet and ask her.
The second one is that I get my friends band to play some songs really loud in the bar under her apartment and be with her in the apartment and ask her if we should go see what all the noise is about and then take her down there and have them play our song as we enter and have some decorations maybe and get down on one knee and ask her there.
The third one is the simple goto a nice dinner and ask her under the starlight in front of the lake we stopped by on one of our first dates.
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Post by Mr. Sassy Pants on Jun 6, 2006 23:13:41 GMT -5
i say first one....it would prolly embarase (spellin) her the most...=P
and its...soo crazy it has to work!!
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Post by Kami on Jun 6, 2006 23:37:13 GMT -5
though i did like numba 2, go for numba 1=ftw.
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Post by Chu-Chu on Jun 7, 2006 0:28:43 GMT -5
eh, call me hopless romantic but I say out at night, under the stars. Pick her up from work or something. I dunno. I'd hate to do anything in public because I wouldn't want her to feel obligated to say yes due to the surroundings. Take her out on a picnic, for supper, watch the sunset. While laying on the blanket next to her, reach over, caress her face, tell her how much you love her, and pop the question. But that's just me....
~Chu
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Post by drizzt on Jun 7, 2006 0:32:31 GMT -5
i vote 3rd but since i dont know wut kind of personality she has i dont really know but three would b my choice b/c one would never occur to me and give her a small chance to prepair lol she might guess wut is happenin if u do three
Most important Play it cool
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Post by princessfuzzball on Jun 7, 2006 7:49:05 GMT -5
My two cents (being a gal it should be more like a buck in this thread )... The hospital patient thing will be a story to tell everybody, it's private and thoughtful! (have some flowers bedside to give her that look like get well flowers....) Public embarrasments would be great for anniversaries ect... but not for a question of commitmitment.
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Post by Amy on Jun 7, 2006 8:09:32 GMT -5
My two cents (being a gal it should be more like a buck in this thread )... The hospital patient thing will be a story to tell everybody, it's private and thoughtful! (have some flowers bedside to give her that look like get well flowers....) Public embarrasments would be great for anniversaries ect... but not for a question of commitmitment. bingo. plus it shows REAL EFFORT. I vote for that, or... doing something you really hate and she likes with her, just to show her you'd put up with it once in a while, and surprising her during/after that. private rooms/sections are awesome. Of course her co-workers have to be in on it... hrm could be a bit embarrasing, I'd try to do it at the end of her shift so she doesn't have to stick around.
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Post by B8 on Jun 8, 2006 20:28:42 GMT -5
#3
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Post by TEX on Jun 12, 2006 21:53:17 GMT -5
outta those I'd go with #2, but you have to be behind her when the song plays. That way, when she looks back and you're on a knee, she'll be breathless
I don't know her, but I would make it as public as possible and at seemingly the craziest time. Like that commercial about the 3-year anniversary (spell check) and they're in europe and he says, "you know, I would marry you agian, with all these people as our witnesses." She blushes, but looks into the crowd and sees her mom stand up, and her dad come out of hiding. She looks back and sees him on one knee with a ring out saying, " will you marry me... again?", and the entire crowd stands up and applauds.
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Post by B8 on Jun 15, 2006 7:29:40 GMT -5
By now you have to have figured out what you are going to do. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it. So tell us what it is and do it.
If I sound repititious you are right. But we deserve an answer.
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Post by Jonus on Jun 16, 2006 12:49:30 GMT -5
I still have to buy the ring!
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Post by TEX on Jun 17, 2006 0:12:20 GMT -5
oh come on!!!! It doesn't have to be the Hope Diamond. All that matters is that you put your own special touch on the occasion. Sure, a nice huge rock would be nice to show off to her friends, but the ring itself is enough of a symbol.
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Post by B8 on Jun 17, 2006 16:36:05 GMT -5
Make one out of aluminum foil. Take it to her and show her that she has your credit card in the container. Ask her what she would pick out and I bet that she kisses you and...
Afterwards you can go shopping.
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Post by Amy on Jun 18, 2006 9:43:19 GMT -5
Afterwards you can go shopping. the only thing I can hear in my head after that is "latex con-dome... hrm, I wanna live in one of those!" in grandpa simpson's voice.
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Post by TEX on Jun 18, 2006 11:38:56 GMT -5
(looks around for closest sharp object) AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks a lot Amy, now blood is flowing out of my ears
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